When My Mother Died - Our Marriage Fell Apart
The Unconsummated Marriage: Breaking the Silence on Vaginismus
We've Been Growing Apart for Years
I Want a Baby; He Doesn't
One in Two? The Truth About the Divorce Rate
Modern Takes on Traditional Anniversary Gifts
4 Relationship Resolutions for 2025
After the Sexin’s Gone
Confronting Indifference in a Relationship Affected by Illness
Happy Endings for Everyone
Why Don’t We Get Drunk and Screw
Witchy Woman
You’ll Never Get to Second Base with That Kiss
Challenging Ageism in the Dating World
Why Do You Need Us to Hate Each Other?
lol This is the difference between a guy working on his game and a Natural who just needs sex. A Natural will go for the easiest lay and stick to her like glue all night, convince himself she's hotter than she was, and leave with her and get the lay. A guy working on his game is like "ehhh, it's not even midnight, I can do better" and risk going home solo.
Neither option is "better" or "worse" so if you're jonesin', hey, go for it…but in terms of Game, you'll learn a lot more from opening a dozen hot girls in a night and getting blown out than you will be sitting in a corner with one average girl all night and getting laid.
When I started out I'd actually game girls and try to get them to leave the club with me, then as we got close to the door (so I knew I COULD take her out of there), I'd tell her I'd better not leave my friends and I'd ditch her and go find another girl and try to do the same thing with her. My Natural buddy with a super high sex drive will take an easy girl home before midnight and bang her, then show up back in the club before 1am looking for a hotter one lol
"I’m kind of hazy as to how I ended up on the dancefloor."
ahhh alcohol. :D Comments on drinking at the end of this, but don't worry I won't brow-beat you about it.
"and I ended up dancing with her."
This is actually the main problem with drinking and game. Everything becomes "I ended up on the dance floor" and "we ended up dancing" and "somehow we got back to my place"…when the important part, all those details of HOW you ended up doing those things, are lost to the blur of beer. You might perform absolute magic and take home a 10, but you won't remember how you did it and be able to duplicate it in the future. :)
"And it was definitely grindy/sexy. She turned around to face me and put her hands on my shoulders"
Like I say, sometimes those lukewarm sets become warm later in the night. :)
"and then her chubby friend pulls her away."
The Unconsummated Marriage: Breaking the Silence on Vaginismus
We've Been Growing Apart for Years
I Want a Baby; He Doesn't
One in Two? The Truth About the Divorce Rate
Modern Takes on Traditional Anniversary Gifts
4 Relationship Resolutions for 2025
After the Sexin’s Gone
Confronting Indifference in a Relationship Affected by Illness
Happy Endings for Everyone
Why Don’t We Get Drunk and Screw
Witchy Woman
You’ll Never Get to Second Base with That Kiss
Challenging Ageism in the Dating World
Why Do You Need Us to Hate Each Other?
lol This is the difference between a guy working on his game and a Natural who just needs sex. A Natural will go for the easiest lay and stick to her like glue all night, convince himself she's hotter than she was, and leave with her and get the lay. A guy working on his game is like "ehhh, it's not even midnight, I can do better" and risk going home solo.
Neither option is "better" or "worse" so if you're jonesin', hey, go for it…but in terms of Game, you'll learn a lot more from opening a dozen hot girls in a night and getting blown out than you will be sitting in a corner with one average girl all night and getting laid.
When I started out I'd actually game girls and try to get them to leave the club with me, then as we got close to the door (so I knew I COULD take her out of there), I'd tell her I'd better not leave my friends and I'd ditch her and go find another girl and try to do the same thing with her. My Natural buddy with a super high sex drive will take an easy girl home before midnight and bang her, then show up back in the club before 1am looking for a hotter one lol
"I’m kind of hazy as to how I ended up on the dancefloor."
ahhh alcohol. :D Comments on drinking at the end of this, but don't worry I won't brow-beat you about it.
"and I ended up dancing with her."
This is actually the main problem with drinking and game. Everything becomes "I ended up on the dance floor" and "we ended up dancing" and "somehow we got back to my place"…when the important part, all those details of HOW you ended up doing those things, are lost to the blur of beer. You might perform absolute magic and take home a 10, but you won't remember how you did it and be able to duplicate it in the future. :)
"And it was definitely grindy/sexy. She turned around to face me and put her hands on my shoulders"
Like I say, sometimes those lukewarm sets become warm later in the night. :)
"and then her chubby friend pulls her away."